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Going into Season 4,Big Mouthfans could never have guess that Lola , the husky - sound scourge of junior high , and Jay , the magically - inclined horndog , would become not only one of the greatest couples in the serial , but a power couple for the ages . What commence as a fight at the public puddle and escalates into the duo make water bombs from Monster energy drinks and condoms turn into a passionate — and violent — summertime romance .
Lola and Jay excavate a clay pool in his backyard , speak in a raunchy version of courtly love , and help one another coping with each other ’s dysfunction . But all is not witty repartee and toe - sucking . As actual as their relationship is , insecurity , pettiness , and hostility lurk beneath it , making some vista of their bond truly toxic .
Updated on November 20th, 2022 by Kayleena Pierce-Bohen:
Season 6 ofBig Mouthhas get , and Jay and Lola are still broken up , their once roaring fire now reduce to ash . But fans ca n’t aid but reflect on their unfermented bond paper as it regulate every other interpersonal relationship they have . Jay moves on with Matthew , but Lola is leave put the pieces of her living back together after being Jay ’s 2nd pick , turning to Jessi for comfort and validation .
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They Don’t Care What Others Think About Them
While Jay is a bit of an outsider , Lola has taste to fit into her radical of friends for age , sucking up to pretty girls like Devin just to be one of the " cool kids . " Devin tries to make Lola recollect that dating Jay will be social self-annihilation in eighth score , but luckily for Lola — and Jay — she determine to make her own decisiveness .
Jay has to go through his own journey to pick Lola , being well influenced by the opinions of his old sidekick and friends , who feel like Lola is too masculine . Jay at last does n’t let what they say impact his determination , and he embarks on a whirlwind romance with Lola , and together they become two of the series ' full character .
They Root For Each Other
Jay and Lola have a wonderful way of cheer each other on , no matter what their interests are . When they decide to work up a pool after getting kick out of the public facility , they boost each other ’s creativeness , and when they swipe into a sorority ’s haunt firm after being denied access , they complement each other ’s marksmanship with paintball guns .
When Lola utilize a combination of good martial arts move and a shovel to decimate Jay ’s abusive older brothers , Jay is really in reverence of her . He is n’t intimidate by the fact that she openly express her enduringness . Lola is oneBig Mouthcharacter that would definitely winSquid Game .
They Help Heal Each Other
Both Jay and Lola come from broken rest home , and their family line lives have had a declamatory influence on their aggressive personality . Jay ’s category constantly abandons him , go so far as to leave him alone in a fumigated planetary house in time of year 3 , while Lola ’s house — who the audience has n’t get together yet — went so far as to set her up in a poser apartment with a broken in microwave and never visit her .
The two misfits line up solace in each other and help each other mend from transmitted hurt . In the very first installment of season 4 , Lola defends Jay from his abusive sidekick Kurt and Val , picture him that after so many time of year of mistreatment , he does n’t have to take it any longer .
They Respect Each Other
The pair have an adorable habit of refer to each other by the titles " King " and " Queen " , and many aspects of their relationship are sit after formal sexual love , with valorous works and enactment of devotion . Even Jay ’s foot fetish for his " Queen , " which he certify by lick the clay off her toes , convey how beautiful he finger she is .
Jay puts Lola ’s pleasure above his own , idolize her in a way that would make Nick ’s mom jealous , complete with a metaphor about sexuality conveyed by a mediaeval palace andJay as a Draco . For three season Lola has been referred to as a " rubbish dump truck " , so it ’s skillful to see her treated like royalty .
They Have A Blast Together
No matter what they ’re doing , whether it ’s making out at a coffee shop class , reading the paper in the school cafeteria , attending a funeral , or dressing up like Bonnie and Clyde , Jay and Lola seem to have the best metre hanging out together . Their total acceptance of each other make themtwo of the best characters in the show .
None of their friends suspected they would be as perfectly matched as they are , especially give their strong personality . But they ’re bona fide , real , and — for the most part — transparent . Jay accept Lola ’s cryptical vocalization and domineering personality , and Lola accepts Jay ’s eccentric kinks and squirmy behavior .
They Remain Friends & Admit When They’re Wrong
Despite everything they ’ve gone through , the two stay friends . They are n’t ready to be besties yet after their separation , but Lola sympathise that Jay is destine to be with Matthew and that she ’ll need to find someone who loves her for who she is .
It ’s strong to remain admirer with an ex-wife , and the two give each other the necessary blank to rebuild their flavour . Jay fares substantially than Lola at first because he has a budding new relationship , but Lola shortly ascertain consolation in spending time with Jessi in time of year 6 .
They Help Each Other Through Family Changes
Jay try out to connect with his family in a heavy agency in season 6 , skip to preface Matthew as his boyfriend and have them accept him as part of the family . At the same time , Lola is processing the fact that thanks to a DNA test , she might have three dads .
Jay and Lola have always had to contend with dysfunctional home sprightliness characterized by abandonment and a lack of genuine human connection . That they can bear out each other in finding new families , even from afar , take them a sweet former pairing .
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Their Love Language Is Insults
As gratifying as it is to behold Jay and Lola ’s effervescent witticism and witness the desolation due to their withering affront , it ’s often directed as much at themselves as it is at others . While some satire in a relationship can keep it racy , too much can easy erode positivity and trust .
It does n’t take long for insults to fly between them , especially when their friends question their compatibility . Lurking beneath their romance are late - root insecurities that manifest in anger , and because of this , even their compliments are laced with maliciousness , such as Jay ’s to Lola after they complete the puddle in his backyard : “ You did most of the study babe — and with your human foot , too , those strong little hooves . ”
They Need Bigger Thrills To Sustain Their Excitement
Jay and Lola commence their kinship out of the passion fuel by an line at the public pool , and this seems to set its tint . Their argument soon turns to make Monster Energy Drink dud , an routine that inspires their perception of one another as glamorous criminals .
When they dress up like Bonnie and Clyde to get into the sorority haunted mansion and are abnegate entry , they decide to break in alternatively , fritter away anyone in their track , and slip all the hard cash gained by paying participants . In Nick ’s alternate future , they grow up to be post - apocalyptic anthropophagite . A radiation diagram seems to emerge want more chaotic situations to amplify the thrill of their relationship .
They Bring Out The Worst In Each Other
As much asthe best part of time of year 4is observe Lola and Jay acting like an quondam marital distich , the season does n’t let viewers blank out that they ’re freshly minted teens still processing their emotions and endocrine . They may at times act more mature than Andrew and Nick when it comes to transparency , but they still have a mountain to learn .
At the pool , Jay evidence Lola , “ You ’re on my Sturdy Under 30 listing , ” which only induce her to scream , “ You ’ll be the 2d person I ’ve drown ! ” They both have wrath issues , which add up to the forefront anytime they discord .
They’re Disturbed
Of all his friends , Jay has been the one who has pushed the bound of acceptableness in the group . For several seasons he ’s been so passing sexually seize to his pillow that he foregoes actual human connection .
And Lola declaring that causing a male child in kindergarten to trip and impale his skull on a spike is the " most epical hilarity " is just as troubling . Lola wo n’t even recount Jay if the child live or died because it will make the event less amusing in her mind , which hard imply that poor Isaacdiddie because the serious injury is the only reason why physical accidents cease to be funny .
They’re Stubborn
unluckily , the two substantial personalities in the serial publication come to a head when , as season 4 winds down , Jay breaks up with Lola because she fails to react fast enough when he say " I love you " . Jay ’s ego is delicate , as evidenced when he screams , " If you ca n’t say ‘ I love you ’ the 2nd I do , then you do n’t deserve me at all ! " .
Lola attempt to make up with Jay but being equally frail , fly into a rage at Jay when he wo n’t accept her terms . She vow to go to " Warrrrrrr ! " with him in 8th grade , raise that their stubborn streak and inability to compromise were always go to be a big job in their kinship . If buff be intimate Jay and Lola together in time of year 4 , no doubt they ’ll equally love them as nemeses in time of year 5 .
They Sabotage New Relationships
It takes a bit of cooling off before Jay and Lola are ready to be around each other in time of year 6 after break up . Lola has snide remarks to say about Jay and Matthew , and even when she receive the luck to make out with Nick she ruins the consequence by declaring she can do best .
Meanwhile , Jay push a very uncomfortable Matthew to work him home to his parents and later , to meet not just a few members of his household , but dozens at an improbably awkward outside barbeque . They might not have been right for each other , but they might not be correct for anyone else so soon after their split . Hopefully , Jay and Matthew will bea duo who can become friendswith Lola .
They Gossip About Each Other
Even when they were together , Lola and Jay become to their friends to question what the other person was think , and it pick out a long clock time for them to trust one another . After their separation , they still do n’t have kind password to say about each other when they ’re in the same room .
The primary facilitator of enmity is Lola , who tends to say passive - belligerent things under her intimation whenever she get word Jay and Matthew . She ’s simply hurt and does n’t recognize where to channel her pain in the ass . Fortunately , she finds more positivist outlet by and by in season 6 and lead the couplet alone .
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